Follow me into the depths of dementia as I recount my Mothers journey with me as her reluctant wingman.
The introduction to Fran is a difficult one because my memories of my Mother were not particularity good.
As a small child I remember being afraid of her, yet depending on her because she was the adult in the room. Fran was never affectionate and quick to mete out punishment.
Today, I am afraid of her, and for her, as we navigate a new way of life with dementia. To say our health care system is in chaos would be an understatement, to be complacent in the role of caregiver would be a mistake.
Being respectful of those who care for us is mandatory, but also earned. I have encountered many compassionate and caring individuals in the health care community, but an equal number who are not.
The Book of Fran was developed to help everyone step into a plan to help your loved one. The caregiver must be assertive and control the narrative so there is a clear pathway for treatment.
Pack your patience, embrace the humor and keep your seatbelt on as unexpected turbulence is anticipated!
Find the humor in your journey, it’s the only way to come out the other side and reclaim your life.
Accept what you can’t change. As we weave through the history that is the backdrop of my life, my wish is to provide insight and hope.
Gigi circa 1957